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Where have all the time gone to. 
Because it happened to me.



Yeah Maybe It Was.
I just can't handle my own flash back.
Damn it.
I know I should be sleeping by now when I have to wake up at 8:30am later. But the thing is, I can't sleep. :( I just can't close my eyes even when my eyes are so heavy. :( So meanwhile, I looked through some stuffs and this is what I've found.
To all the girls.
As usual, brackets and italic are commented by me.
102 Things a Girl should know about guys
1. Not all guys are gamers, generalisation hurts those that aren't. ( then what's the point when we say SOME? )
2. For those that are gamers, they can be easily swayed when offered an alternative. They are mind-washed, you aren't....Use this well. ( I don't care whether they are or not, just don't look for me. )
3. Only put kisses on the end of msn messages/texts if you are interested and really mean it....Otherwise we get confused. ( It's like how guys get us confused too. )
4, As with the above, for some unknown reason, double letters (e.g. heyy) gets a guys attention. ( Thank god I put 3, like heyyy. )
5, Men can get very jealous when you talk to guy friends and we need to be constantly reassured. ( Then where's the basic trust? )
6, Don't string out a rejection. This prolongs agony. Keep it short and sweet, but try to be kind. ( Sometimes when we're all confused, we ALL don't know what to do. )
7, It is well known that guys must take an interest in girls, and in general we really do, but sometimes, ask us about ourselves, it makes us feel wanted. ( There's a reason why we observe more, for certain females. )
8, If a guy puts himself down, it is most likely genuine, and not fishing for comments. ( Oh really? I look down on guys who put themselves down because, everyone is perfect in their own ways. Be positive! )
9, We are in fact surprisingly sincere. It is hard to make up a lie and make it sound convincing, even in writing. More often than not, if we compliment you, we mean it. ( Nah, I've seen guys who can lie without even blinking their eyes. -.- )
10, Know your guy. He will either be interested in looks or personality. It is generally obvious. Pick one and go for it. ( I agree, almost all guys are like that. )
11, Wearing inches of make-up is not sexy.
12, Some guys like girls who don't wear much. Most don't.
13, If we get protective, tell us, but also be aware that it's because we know that we have the best girl of all. ( Protective is fine, but not POSSESIVE! )
14, When you are in a relationship and in public, wear something that makes you feel comfortable, we will love you whatever.
15, Don't wear revealing clothes. Even if we're just friends, this can be quite embarassing for us (on your behalf).
16, Be specific. guys can improvise, but we like subtle instructions (Hints are great, we like to feel that we are in charge, even though we know we aren't)
17, Tell us all your likes and dislikes, but slowly, we can't remember everything at once. ( But there are guys who won't even remember after like years? )
18, If we ask to watch a film that we know you hate, we are just teasing you. Refuse to watch it point blank. Guys will accept, and then feel bad that he's upset you. ( This is plain stupidity. What for do this kind of things? -.- )
19, For 18, sometimes give in at the end, we feel like we have just won a long, and hard game, and will like you more just for conceding this once. ( So we're having a war? Retarded. )
20, Tell the world how you feel about us, but not how we feel about you. ( Why not you do that? )
21, If we are in public, and the guy starts talking to his mates about something that you really couldn't care less about, make yourself heard.....You are our priority. ( Once or twice still okay, but not ALL the time? )
22, Sometimes we do know what's best....Rarely, but if we put our foot down, don't feel insulted, just go with it. ( Go yourself la. )
23, Laugh with us in public, tell us that we are stupid in private. Then at least when the joke or fact receives blank faces, we are confident that at least you will save us. ( Think before you act? )
24, Secrecy is good to a point, but after a while, we just think you're cheating, or we run out of things to talk about in a conversation. ( Then be honest la! )
25, Don't cheat. That's one thing we are generally good at finding out about. ( So am I, good at finding this. )
26, Women have been proven to be generally more intelligent than men. In a conversation, we will try to the best of our abilities to keep it going, but eventually, we run out of steam, which is when it turns awkward. ( I'll try to act stupid, for once okay? )
27, Not all men are jocks with six packs. Either deal with it, or tell us that this is important to you. ( Nah, six packs are not exactly needed, for me. Though it'd nice to have them on you. )
28, If you know that we have a talent, be it music, sport, art etc. Talk about these things, it makes us feel wanted. ( Then it'll start to get boring after a while? Cause only you happy happy listen to what you like, I will be like ???? What's this and that. )
29, Playing with your hair can either be sexy or childish....Make sure that you are doing the right one! ( How about when you're lying on my lap? )
30, If you really like your boyfriend, but think he's lost interest, confront him. If you try and end it, he will have so much respect for you (because no guy wants to dump a girl), though most times, talking to him will sort out a problem... ( The thing is, even if you're the one who dump them, they'd probably tell their friends they are the one who dumped us. -.- )
31, Some guys show bravery in ways other than doing physical heroic deeds. If you notice this and tell us, its really attractive. ( As long as it's not FIGHTING, I'd love it. )
32, Some guys are slow starters. If he asks you out in text format, he might still be manly, just nervous. Most actors get nervous, but I dare you to suggest that George Clooney, Brad Pitt etc aren't manly.
33, If you are suspicious, ask if we like you. We will tell the truth in these situations. ( Not really true lo. )
34, If you have glasses, they are way more attractive than contacts. Modern glasses must be used to the best of their abilities, wear them as often as is possible. You look intelligent, and it brings out the colour in your eyes.
35, You are not fat, you are cuddly. ( Lies. )
36, Stick thin models are very unattractive. ( Neither is Fat Elephant. )
-Okay, to this point, I'm tired. I'll do that again tomorrow or the day after. Goodnight world. -
37, If you think that we are keeping something from you, but telling one of our friends, wait until after either your birthday or christmas (nearest celebration) to confront us. (surprises are good, but please don't give too many. It gets bored. -.-)
38, Bad dancing is cute. Good dancing is sexy. Both are attractive, don't just shy away.
39, We love hugs. Coming up to us at random times with quick hugs or kisses is such a cool thing to do. (I don't really like it, if you're not someone really close to me?)
40, Tell us if you're not feeling loved and point us in the right direction. (You're supposed to lead me to the right place and not when things are all wrong then ask me to amend it! -.- It takes two to tango!)
41, Come to us if you are feeling particularly emotional, we can either comfort you, or help you, but going elsewhere is almost like cheating. (Sorry, I only go to FAMILY members when I'm particularly emotional. Or I rather be on my own. Just don't bother me and I'll be fine.)
42, We know how important your best friend is, but if we seem uncomfortable with him/her, or dislike them, try and see things from our point of view. They may not be so saintly after all. (Are you jealous or something? My best friend is a BEST FRIEND for a reason, dude?)
43, Intelligence will lead to a long relationship, though being a bit dumb is cute. Just make sure that you have something to talk about. (Lol I'm too smart. HAHA)
44, Men are not porn addicts. We know that you have the morale high ground, don't try and get higher. (porn addicts? I've not come across this. But since you're a man and you said it, then I think men are.)
45, Men are clean, Don't be afraid of contact. (LOL It's because men are dirty that's why!)
46, Flirting works for guys with experience, though most will not have a clue, especially if you have loads of guy friends. Be obvious. (I only flirt with friends I'm closer to. LOL)
47, When in doubt, you make the first move. If we don't feel the same, we won't tell the whole world and taunt you about how much you like us. (We're girls? First moves are hard to make!)
48, Don't try and join in everything we do. Sometimes we need time alone, and plus, this will make every time with you even more special. (OH I LOVE THIS!!!)
49, If we don't call, there is definately a reason. Wait until you see us before you plan our death. (Nah, I've encountered guy who don't call and doing shit behind my back. At least take the effort to even CALL BACK or text me la.)
50, Don't pretend to be more interesting and active than you are. Sometimes all a guy wants is someone to relax with. (Sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder. That's why we're excited and become active.)
51, If you are shy, be shy near us, not in a corner, otherwise we will definately not notice you. (Then what's the defination fo SHY?)
52, We don't care what label is on your clothes. Don't worry about this.
53, We can't always write essays in cards about how much we love you, and don't need it back. Short but meaningful messages are the best. (Sometimes girls just like to read everything in details, so, telling us how much you love us in DETAILS matter.)
54, When it comes to themsleves, guys are most worried about their hair, be it on their head, chest, etc. We will shave it, wax it, or anything just for you, but say what we must do. We will stop worrying, and spend more time thinking of you. (As long as your hair is not long like some morons can alr!)
55, Basically, if you think that you are self-conscious, think again, guys get so nervous about how they look. This is when Mr Cool Guy makes an appearance. (but i don't think it'll be worse than girls?)
56, Your smile and laughter are the most gorgeous things that aren't always there. Do them as often as possible. (I always does that!)
57, When you hit us, we often don't know whether it's joky or for real. (I'll tell you then. -.-)
58, Be a woman, trying to beat a man at his own game makes you seem manly, and beating him at something typically masculine (not to be confused with unisexual) is the height of uncoolness.
59, Put us straight, we will only make the first move in a conversation if we either really want to talk to you and/or we are certain that we aren't annoying you. (Lol if you don't talk then it'll be boring isn't it? -.-)
60, You probably have a lot of friends. We don't. Unfortunately, that means that if you don't talk to us for a long time, we don't consider that you are busy, simply that you suddenly dislike us. (err, this is stupid. You should start a conversation first too. Always me talking to you first, I get effing bored.)
61, A man's room is sacred. Only women in a relationship or who are very close friends are allowed to glimpse this glorious cave of mess. This is high honour. (HAHAHA. Okay. Buddy, I've been into yours and many other guy friends. So I'm special that they allow me to?)
62, Imagine this.....We have said we like you, you have said that you just want to be friends.....If you like no-one else, try and see our good sides, we may be more attractive than you think. (Of course, everyone is attractive in their own ways!)
63, Don't try and make yourself look more busty. If a man is worth having, he doesn't give a sh!t. (Lol. But you can't deny the fact that men like it. -.-)
64, Try and walk alone sometimes, by travelling in groups, you make it very difficult for us to say what we need to. (?? Join in and walk together?)
65, Men save up for things. By giving you even a tenner as a gift, we have put you far above ourselves, remember this, because our time is filled with "work, you, miss you, think about you, sleep etc." Sometimes we don't have time to make you something, even though we wanted to. (I always think it's the thoughts that counts, but without telling me anything, i won't even know you actually THOUGHT about it. -.-)
66, We change, you may have known us and hated us for a year, but try and just talk to us, we have probably improved. (hopefully it's really IMPROVE.)
67, One look can give a guy goosebumps. (LOL I think I can't do that.HAHA)
68, If he is looking away, he isn't bored by you, he is worried that he will stare at you because you really are that gorgeous. (-.- wth.)
69, Don't roll up your skirts and then get angry if a man looks at your legs. We have impulses, and mostly, if we look at your body, we are just getting the whole picture and enjoying it, not thinking about sex. (Yeah come up with more excuses please. -.-)
70, Like the old fables say, guys also ruffle their hair when they like a girl, not to look cool, just to try and make last minute adjustments, because we think that around you, we always look stupid. (Lol what for? -.-)
71, If we have something desperately important to do, and can't go somewhere when you want us to, we don't think that our time is more important than you, it is unavoidable, and we will make it up a hundredfold afterwards. (Yeah, always only at the beginning. -.-)
72, A guy will always help his friend get a girl to like him. This is not being deceitful, we are just showing you this person in a different light. Don't attack him for pretending, be grateful that he went to such trouble just to have a chance with you. (Walao. It will only make me shun you. -.-)
73, Guys will randomly write poems or do something creative for the girl they love. It may be terrible, but it has taken all his mental strength to do this, so he is definately one to hold on to. (Woah worse, all the sweet talks. -.-)
74, What you think is weird, we think is adorably cute. (then you're weird too.)
75, Drinking heavily and getting off your face is not cool or sexy, it just makes you an easy target, which is only for those who are desperate. (thank god i'm not. HAHA)
76, Seriously, rumours are so rubbish. Even if you start it off as a good one, it will spark others that aren't so flattering. (Rumours are still rumours until they're proven otherwise. (: )
77, If we are messy, it isn't because we don't care about appearance, it's because we were in a rush to see you. (excuses.)
78, To us, you are the centre of the world, just remember that we are not everyone....
79, Linked with 78, Confidence is great, arrogance is awful. (Over confidence is worse.)
80, We don't swear to look cool, we swear because we have strong opinions, and sometimes it's just relevant. (Then that's stupid. -.-)
81, Try and be graceful. You may not think you are attractive, but a lady who moves with elegance can be better than anygirl with a naturally pretty face. (Cool eys? Funny. -.-)
82, Even playful insults hurt, because you have clearly thought about it. (then do some soul searching of why? Lol)
83, Don't even think about trying to be nasty to our families whilst being charming to us. Sisters, mothers, little brothers....You like them all or it is over. (LOL I never have this problem. They love meeeeeee.)
84, If we have friends who are intelligent, but not "cool", mocking them is just unacceptable. (Lol then if they mock at you what do I do?)
85, We don't dare flirt with other girls when in a relationship. They flirt with us. It is your right (but not ours) to smack her as hard as you can. (You should take the initiative to let them know you're taken you dumb shit. -.-)
86, If you have an idea for something to do, tell us. Even if it is not the most manly thing in our eyes, it is your right, no, your duty, to drag us along and make us enjoy it. (Yeah right. -.-)
87, If you consider getting plastic surgery for any reason, don't. It is rare that a girl will get it, but natural is always best. (love this.)
88, If you want a physical relationship, have one night stands. Don't go for weeks with us telling you that we love you and then say that we are a bit pushy. (It works the other way round for me. lol)
-OMG IT'S SO TIRING DOING THIS! I'LL CONTINUE TOMORROW. (:-
89, Guys are masculine for you. This does not mean that we will win fights, but we will get in fights to protect you. Do not overestimate the meaning of th word "masculine".
90, We pretend not to care if you forget something (our birthday etc.) but we do.
91, Don't try and make us jealous by telling us about how good ex boyfriends and movie stars are, just tell us to buck up, or we will simply get bored and leave.
92, Singing along to anything, whether good or bad, is sexy.
93, A man who cries is not weak, he is just open....He will share everything with you.
94, We need your help more often than not. If you can help with a smile upon your face then you will instantly be uber awesome.
95, If for some reason a guy DOES just say "fine" when you ask him a question, there is a serious reason. Asl if something's wrong, comfort him, then ask the question again, and you will get the real answer.
96, WHENEVER we read a manual or ask for directions, look away and then share a cheeky grin with the guy and never speak of it again.
97, If anyone is giving you grief, tell us and we will sort them out.
98, A guy's best friend is someone who he can trust, a sort of anchor to sanity. If you try and remove this bond without VERY good reason, the man will either break up with you and keep his mate, or he will slide into a depression.
99, We are never afraid to try something new, just not stupid enough ( we will always eat your new exotic recipe, but may not take a particular liking to frequent bungie jump trips)
100, Stay as close to your guy as possible...He needs to feel safe too.
101, Take us to all of your favourite places, we love anything that links with you.
102, Never forget how much power you hold over a man's heart. Guys have jumped off buildings as a response to a harsh break up.
pray the poor little Baby Girl, Jeorgina.
She's hospitalised now, having the need to be on IV Drip, taking antibiotics and going through X-rays.
She's only 30 Days old. :(
I've been taking care of her the past two days and I could barely even close my eyes and sleep well.
Cause she's breathing so hard that it feels like she might not be able to breathe the next second.
Yes I'm worrying, too much I guess. But having to see one small little Baby to be hospitalised at only 30 Days, it just worries me.
With the fact that I'm a person who will worry A LOT, tell me how not to.
I kept quiet the whole afternoon.
So imagine my worries...
Yeap, I'm back to Malaysia.
Though it's just not too long ago that I've been back here. Haha. But it feels a bit like distanced. :|
I miss everyone here though. HAHA!
Anyway, I'm supposed to leave home at 6am today to come back to Malaysia (That's the reason why I wanna play DOTA until so late.) but because my Queen don't allow me to do that, I gotta turn in at 4am AND I failed to wake up at 5am to go back at 6am. Instead, I waited for my Queen and sister to come home after ballet class then go back together. Zzz
Reach JB close to 5:30pm and waited for my cousin-in-law to come and pick us up at about 7:30pm and meanwhile we were wandering around like some stupid idiots because almost all the shops were close because the Sultan passed away last night. -.- G_G And so we went to Jusco to hang around to wait for cousin in law. zzz Boohoo.
And I've just reached hometown about half an hour ago. Haha. Now is about 11:36pm.
AND I GOTTA GO NOW. MY AUNT AND NEPHEWS ARE HERE.
BYE WORLD. (:
In your arms.
Where you are the one, the one,
That lies close to me.
Whispers, "Hello,
I've missed you quite terribly."
I fell in love, in love,
With you suddenly.
Now there's no place else,
I could be, but,
Here in your arms.
Just, to see you smile. (:
Children is gin-nakia.
Bird is jiao-kia.
Puppy is gao-kia.
Kitten is ngiao-kia.
Chick is kuey-kia.
Give birth is seh-kia.
Police is mata-kia.
Tattoo is ang kong kia
Fatty is bui-kia.
China guy is TiongKok-kia.
Malay is huan-kia.
Indian is kek-leng-kia.
Chinese is teng-lang-kia.
Japanese is jit-pun-kia.
Bad guy is pai-kia.
Good guy is ho-kia.
Korean car is KIA.
Furniture is IKEA.
Handphone is NOKIA.
If you manage to read up to this point, you are a Gong-kia.
If you laugh, you are a Siao-kia
Haha!
"Love is the most hurtful, humiliating, depressing,and joyful emotion someone can ever feel !"
Okay, squeezing in MRT isn't the whole point. It's how those horrendous people keep pushing their way into the freaking MRT. It's like, can't they wait for the NEXT MRT since it's only about 2mins? Why the need to PUSH the people who are ALREADY in the train just to get your freaking fat ass into the MRT. Omg. When there is barely enough space to fit one more person. Goodness. Singapore, your citizen is showing you that TRAINS ARE NOT ENOUGH. Or maybe, not BIG enough to accomadate the amount of people every morning so it's time you do something about it. Or else you'll have MORE horrible people like that. Omg.
BE;
considerate.
BE;
nice.
BE;
co-operative.
Learn these. -.-
Grrr.









Again, I'm not emo. (:
I just want to share the good stuffs I've found. (:
More to come, enjoy! ^.^
1. My Primary. 2. My secondary.
3. So is this secondary.
But I want my Primary,
Willing donor please? HAHA.
I miss the me with long BLACK, straight hair. :(
Somehow, missing the OLD me. :(
But I don't think it's a good idea to be who I was back then.
And I know I can never do that anymore. =|
Mission:
All the best, Kat. (:
Recently, I've been going through all the old photos. So many people, so many times at so many venues for so many events. I miss all those people with me through the events. :( Of course, at the mean time I saw photos that reminds me of the good old times when everything was just so.... unbelievable, when those were the times I believe everything was just possible. -.- Boohoo. Well, it's not too late now though. Haha.
No more hard feelings, just that I feel that I'm like a total different person as compared to last time. I'm no longer the ' everything also say yes ' girl. I'm now the girl ' who would voice out everything '. Haha. Huge difference but thanks to the brothers, they opened me up and made me learn, that's where my life's turning point was. (:
Have you ever realised how and why every year passed by but you still remember what happened, clearly? Have you ever encounter that? Haha. For me, I do when I look back on the past. Be it photos, my blog posts, my sms or anything that can bring back the past, even places I go to. (:
Let's see... (:
When it's just two best friends.

When I'm still in Secondary School. (:
When you see the Senior and the Junior. ^.^ -Clarinet & Flute-


When my life was filled with just one man. -.-
When you see the power of band and mass.
When you see 300+ leaders gather together.
When it's all just drum majors from different schools.
When it was just about 30th NCO Campmates.
When the good old skaters still skates.
When it's just about my pink skate.
When my mom showed her support to my first skating competition.
When we all will still mess around like a kid.
When we still were close like family.
When Clement decided to be a woman, for a minute.
When we were still as ONE.
When I turned 18.
When I had the first alcohol as present.
When I started clubbing in 07.
When Buddy was always, clubbing with me.
When there was still MOS and I like the bouncers there.
When I tried to be a monkey. HAHA.
When I first visit Powerhouse.
When I started training on booze.
When I still hangout with Dolly.
When I met these new friends on 29 December 06.
When everything was so young and sweet.
When I started to be obsess with kissing girls.
When I found out that I should be me.
When these wonderful people brought colours to my dull life.
When Chloe was just 2years old.
When it's a gift from me to Them.
When I had this Gong to support me, mentally and physically.
When I will always remember this person since then.
When I treasure this since then.
When I light up my life with a whole new me.
When I had my first nephew.
When the four sisters unite.
When there was still Ngee Ann Poly in my life.
When I realised James is a Muay Thai-er.
When I still contact my cousin in Malaysia.
When this cousin was still alive..
So much memories. Though quite a few of them are fading and some of them I totally don't remember. But I've always told myself, that photos are very essential in life because you can be brought back to where you went to, been to and gone through. Therefore, you can call me cam whore or whatever. Because to me, I just wanna keep them as memories and so I can be reminded of the past in the future.
Well, people come and go. But what's gonna turn into a pity is that, friends who were once so close has become like the worse stranger you ever came across, a passerby.
Toodoos to all my friends. (: